jonlacksanh-deactivated20140426 asked: could it be ever okay to deliver someone a 2nd message whenever they don’t really react to the very first? I have always seen no reaction as a polite no, however the more relationship blogs We read, the greater We see people whining about extremely guys that are persistent which means that a great deal of dudes are performing this, helping to make me wonder, performs this ever really work? Have actually you ever taken care of immediately a message that is second? Can there be a good situation that is hypothetical, months in the future, a snubbed suitor could redeem himself on their second try?
Many thanks for your concern. I believe lots of people wonder about any of it therefore I chose to get a male viewpoint too therefore we could possibly get just a little he said/she said thang going.
DFS factor Matthew P. has many ideas nevertheless before we arrive at that, hereвЂ™s my woman viewpoint:
We absolutely believe it is okay to send a second message if you will be genuinely enthusiastic about the person and also one thing worthwhile to state. (Worthwhile could be the key phrase here.) There are numerous reasons why i really do perhaps not respond to messages that are first
(1) IвЂ™m like, actually busy and crucial and often we check communications regarding the application back at my phone and later forget to respond. We donвЂ™t like responding through the application because We canвЂ™t form for shit on my iPhone while having made some typos that are really hideous the last. Like, typos you are able to unsee never.
(2) i will be in the fence about an individual and figure if they’re ready to help with the time and effort in вЂњchasingвЂќ me via OKC communications and now have the right what to say, well that is cool. Nevertheless, IвЂ™m not gonna play ball immediately because, you understand, busy and crucial or otherwise not interested sufficient to spend the full time in developing a response that is solid. (we donвЂ™t do half ass communications – I think it is rude and does not get anybody anywhere.)