By Julie H. Case
It really is 11am, I”m up to my eyeballs in work, and a person We have actually yet to satisfy is asking, via text, the way I want to be worshipped.
Together with your silence, is exactly what i am thinking.
We could swipe and talk in-app to the heart’s content. But for myself, you may not have my number until I see your face. Credit: Stocksy
Why we made a decision to flake out my no-digits-before-dates guideline this time around is a secret. Had been it because he asked, politely? Because he seemed charming and harmless? Or ended up being it simply monotony?
Initially, We greeted their textual come-ons with jokes, then politely demurred as he attempted to ratchet it a notch. Yet, the worship talk continued. Quickly he had been seeking a telephone call – and authorization to call me personally “the sexy one”.
When you look at the final end, We nipped it into the bud and opted down, closing any possibility for a relationship before it began. Possibly i am too delicate, too literal, too self-protective. But somehow i cannot imagine the way I’d transition from near-sexting to one thing of substance.
Most of all, I’m annoyed. And it is this extremely form of annoyance that I’ve been wanting to avoid with my standard “no digits before dates” rule. Continue reading